September 2022 to December 2022

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Widower 72 happily married for 50 years until Sue went to heaven last year. I grieved for several months in a bottle. When I sobered up I was trying to decide whether to send Sue's beautiful dresses and outfits to a consignment shop or donate them to charity. For some silly reason I decided to try one on. It started just that simply. Days later I gave all male clothes to charity instead. Sue had a great sense for fashion. Like most husbands all my taste is in my mouth. I am sure Sure to looking down from heaven and laughing, telling the other angels she is glad I am following in her footsteps. I am jot a drag queen, just a coupon queen. I collect toothbrushes, toothpaste, cosmetics, etc for the battered women's shelter I volunteer at 2 days a week. Many of these women leave a bad relationship with nothing but the clothes on their backs. I also volunteer 2 days at an assisted living center. I absolutely melt when a woman compliments me on what I am wearing. I am active enough at 72 to wear 3 inch high heels. I am. not looking for a girlfriend, just a girl who is a friend. I prefer penpals to chat for all too often in chatrooms you find yourself saying what you think the other person wants to hear. I keep a diary now and write poetry. I would love to trade my poems for low calorie dessert recipes. Sue always said if a girl does not watch her figure, neither will the boys

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¾ are attacked, one every 3 seconds, if your 3 seconds comes, this will keep you alive. Stop Attacks Having her help his disabled self was how serial killer Ted Bundy abducted his scores of victims. If you see a van next to your car, get in through the passenger side or have someone walk to your car. 78% of rapes are by men you trust so don't let unknown deliverymen in.  Tell them "Leave the packages in front of the door with the paperwork, step far back & I'll sign." Watch them and sign, then watch them drive away but if they stall call 911!             On the street be very vigilant, 9/10 of attacks from behind or from hiding. Always walk against traffic and watch for stalkers in cars. If threatened this always works for me; I hide my hand and bluff, “I have a gun!”             If you are attacked bend your knees suddenly, drop to the level of his balls and punch them, unlike easily defensed kicks it’s impossible to avoid.  I carry a legal self-defense weapon, a two-inch locking blade knife, larger knives require appearance before a judge.             If dipped in melted soft wax, then salt it burns so furiously it’s all he can think of! If you stab an attacker, call 911 or he will report you attacked him and you will be arrested.  When I called there was a car a few feet away and I said, “I thought he had a weapon.” The police are trained to accept this as a valid reason to stab a person. Romance Fun & Wisdom Doug Miura Write gentlewarxxxxx@ yahoo. com