June 2025 to September 2025

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Hi, I'm Carolina, which is my feminine name. I am a older married (secret) CD whose wife has occasionally “suspected” but always accepted my explanations. As I age, I find that I am becoming curious about the various paths that my life did not take, one of these being what would have happened if my wife had discovered me when I was being Carolina. And that’s why I would like to correspond with wives (and widows) who have shared (or attempted to share?) marriage with such a husband; wondering how you found out about your husband’s proclivities (did he “reveal” - “Honey, I’ve got something to tell you”, or did you “discover” - “Hi honey, I’m home early .. What Are You Wearing?”?!!?!”). What were your thoughts at that moment? What did you say - and how did he respond? I’m especially curious whether he pleaded for you to stay with him and whether you found that comforting - or pitiful. Did you seek solace and advice from your sisters or friends and what did they tell you? If you ultimately accepted the situation, why? (I still loved him? He earned the money? We had kids? I couldn’t face starting over again?) In accepting the situation, did you quickly realize that a “power shift” had occurred the marriage, that the “pants he once wore” were now panties which you controlled if he wanted to stay married to you - or did that realization come later? Did you put limits on his activities (“not my clothes, not when the kids or I am home, not in public, and not with other people!”)? Finally, did the two of you finally find a way to make it work (and how?) or did it slowly end the marriage? Or was if “just one of those annoying things” that all marriages have? Email me, I'm looking forward to learning about your experiences. And if you should have any questions, I'll respond. Love Carolina

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His Holiness the Christ said: "Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need."

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ex soldier, sailor, breadbaker, born at outbreak of world war 2, seen many countries , live i southwest of uk, married, 2 daughters, 6 granchildren, have an old dog, have a nice car, home is rented from council, love to chat by emails, love to hear other peoples life story, s

Introduction:
ex soldier, sailor, breadbaker, born at outbreak of world war 2, seen many countries , live i southwest of uk, married, 2 daughters, 6 granchildren, have an old dog, have a nice car, home is rented from council, love to chat by emails, love to hear other peoples life story, s

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Seeking FEMALE. Honestly. Do you ever question why? Here we are on this "pale blue dot" and there is no religion that makes any sense of it; not that I know all of them, but they all seem to miss the mark. The Earth is nature and nature itself is indifferent. Everything wants to touch and feel, while at the same time, every species seems poised to strike, especially humans. So here we are at the "top of the food chain," supposedly, running amuck, with no place to go. The struggle for power is destroying the very place where we live. Billionaires are literally running the world and appear to feel no obligation to give back to the world that made them rich, while people starve in pockets of places throughout the world. No one seems to be thinking of the possibility that this species might not survive if we continue to go in this direction. Just rambling, I admit, but these are genuine thoughts. Write if you're interested in a conversation and are not afraid to ask, "Who am I?"