December 2025 to March 2026

Men 40 and more

results: 1 - 20 of 175

# 76539 - Chad (40/M) - 2026-01-08 16:57:35
United States
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Hobbies/Interests: Music, movies, flea markets, reselling, making money, outdoors, AI

Introduction:
Hey people! I'm probably on this site several times damn password issues lol! Can anyone relate? I'm Chad beginning 40s, married, 2 kids, looking for just a few new people to chat with (Females only). I'm on here because I don't talk to my coworkers lol. The winter time we have some down time at work I get bored lol. I can only hear so many back in my day stories you know? Lol. Anyways I work in lovely local government. Lately it's been panning out like a Netflix series. When I'm out of prison I mean work I'm always doing something! I don't do idle time well. I recently just started messing with AI a little I'm wanting to learn more. I find it crazy as hell but also scary as hell lol. I do a lot of reselling on marketplace and eBay. I do wood working. That's where I kinda shine. When the weather doesn't look like cold death outside I'm always outside. I love Lake Michigan and the west coast of Michigan I'm at home. Water has tired to kill me a few times but I respect it now lol. I enjoy video games but I've became more of a collector than a gamer. Well I should wrap this up you get a sample of what I'm about and of course I like to laugh because man the stuff life comes up with sometimes you just have to laugh. My humor can be dark lol. I'm out!

Updated since 2025-12-19 09:02:06
   
# 77870 - Cornelius (40/M) - 2026-03-27 23:59:17
United States
Email:

Add me on gtl app Cornelius Grant 4204272

Introduction:
Thank you for noticing me I truly hope this encounter continues and this is how you intend your hand to me in friendship. I'm a easy going person with a beautiful soul that opening and understanding I don't discriminate nor do I have a Pacific preference. I'm a a 200 % man of entrgiry and dignity I don't know any other way to be any reason I'm in here looking for friends I can't wait to meet you.

Updated since 2026-03-27 23:58:25
   
# 75950 - Jessie (40/M) - 2025-12-15 17:24:43
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Languages: English

Introduction:
Hi im jessie single ive been single now for 5yrs and now im looking again . im looking for your everyday plain jane type of girl not someone who thinks theyre better than me because i soon lose interest so if your a girl who can make me smile young or old im looking for females who like abit of online fun if interested drop me a line age is no problem thanks jessie x

Updated since 2025-10-31 18:18:20
   
# 77719 - John (40/M) - 2026-03-15 14:52:50
India
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Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Playing games, walking , travelling

Introduction:
Hello I am John Iam separated for 4 years, I am here for looking Dating, Short term, long term, Hookup, relationship, friend ship, thank you.

   
# 72577 - Kendall Vedder (40/M) - 2025-12-13 22:27:16
United States
Email:

Introduction:
It's hard to say just how to start one of these or how much to say. Not enough and it's just lazy. Too much and I come across like someone who's fascinated with the sound of his own voice. Fact is, I just want a way to start a conversation with someone and I would like to listen to what someone else has to say. I've had to listen to me for 40 odd years, I like to hear something fresh. As for an introduction, I've not been wildly successful. I'm in prison, which doesn't count in my favor. There have been a few enjoyable responses in this penpal journey of mine but none have quite panned out. However, I'm nothing if not persistent! :) I've got all the normal hobbies covered in terms of I love music and movies and reading. I can ramble on about most subjects but I'm someone who's value won't be immediately apparent. I'm terrible at first impressions. Probably a little too on the blunt side of honesty. I write well but lack in the guile department. Makes for the type of person you're generally going to decide probably isn't for you in about 5 minutes. Though, if you give me about 5 weeks, I tend to grow on you. If you do respond, I'd be interested to know why? It's pretty easy to suss out I'm here out of loneliness. Prison is an isolating place and it takes work to stay connected to the outside. Why get to know someone on a pen pal site? Is it easier to be open? Is it easier to cut bait and run if you get the "ick"? Do you just not like eye contact? I'm interested to hear thoughts on it. I do thank anyone who responds... minus the scammers, you guys suck. It's such a waste of time to bother us prisoners; we don't have any money to scam. To everyone else, thank you.

Updated since 2024-11-30 01:07:14
   
# 76896 - Christopher C Payne (41/M) - 2026-01-12 18:33:49
United States
Email:
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading, bowling, weight lifting, rock hunting

2916 w youngs Rd. Gladwin, mi 48624

Introduction:
41 year old single father, and I live alone. Don't go out much except to rock hunt, fish, and go bowling. I love reading, listening to music, lifting weights, watching movies. Would love to write someone. I would prefer wrong women but willing to connect with anyone. Thanks!

   
# 59640 - Jonathan Padovani (41/M) - 2026-03-23 06:32:15
France
Email:
Languages: French, English & Spanish
Hobbies/Interests: Arts, music, cinema

Mr PADOVANI Jonathan
2, Le Besnard
50750 bourgvallees
France

Introduction:
I'm Jonathan, 41y/o from France. I would love to find male penpals around my age to build true friendship. I'm interested by a lot of things : cinema, music, nature, cooking, travelling, decorating, hiking... I'm searching true people to build strong friendship. I'm ok to talk via email or snail mail. Take care :-)

Updated since 2018-06-30 05:29:45
   
# 76525 - Nubz (41/M) - 2025-12-18 15:35:37
United States
Email:
Languages: English

Introduction:
Hi I'm nubs looking for conversation !! Not looking for love or lust ! Just a loner gamer that in joys anime.

   
# 76773 - Tunmise (41/M) - 2026-01-05 10:53:17
Nigeria
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Languages: English, Italian & Spanish
Hobbies/Interests: Swimming cooking sport and traveling

Introduction:
Am open minded and honest caring man. i do not smoking or drinking school. i am seeking for a honest and loyal woman who I can love with my whole heart. I want woman who is ready to know me more better. i promise you am ready to be there for you and show you real love from my heart.

   
# 75445 - Jason (42/M) - 2026-03-20 00:10:46
United States
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Languages: English

Introduction:
In the words of Socrates - "Like sands of an hourglass, so are the days of our lives." I'm not sure what I am looking for here. Human connection, intrigue, humor? I'm not even sure if I'll be someone reliable to chat with. Maybe it's just another perspective. I am like a feather in the wind while Forest Gump waits for his bus... Basically I would like to conversate with someone, if you are interested, please reach out. I may even be interested in "SnaiL" mail as they say.

Updated since 2025-09-21 00:41:08
   
# 77528 - Nino Sika (42/M) - 2026-02-27 14:17:17
Togo
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Languages: French & English
Hobbies/Interests: Musique , sport , travelling, cooking

Introduction:
Hi me it's Nino Sika I am a single man of Togolese origin I live in Lomé Togo I would like to make friends with a single woman of origin of any nationality for a serious and lasting relationship, I hate lies, fighting, stealing, meanness and racism

   
# 76309 - Fred lucius (43/M) - 2025-12-01 15:19:18
United States
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Languages: English

Fred Lucius e16818
Po box 23608
Tampa fl 33623

Introduction:
Looking for snail mail pen pals only as I'm in prison. Would love to talk to other around the world and learn about other countries and cultures.

   
# 77758 - James Murphy (43/M) - 2026-03-18 21:52:55
United States
Email:

James Murphy 47392-074
Federal correction Inst
P. O. Box 9000
Seagoville, texas 75159

Introduction:
Hello, my name is James Murphy; a former wild child now turned Christian. My friends call me J. R. and I have always been a bit of a social butterfly. I'm 43 years old, straight white male with brown hair and blue eyes. I'm 6ft 1 inch and 215 lbs. I'm looking for a penpal right now, but if something more comes from it..... cool! I'm a HUGE flirt and lobe to make people smile. I love going to the beach or just getting into my car and taking off on a little adventure. I love watching movies, especially old classics and like to go antique shopping. I'm a huge sports fan and like all types of music. As a matter of fact, im a pretty darn good drummer and in a few bands. If you like what you read, shoot me a letter. I hope to hear from you soon

   
# 76385 - John Burke (43/M) - 2025-12-06 19:23:04
United States
Email:
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading, Listening To Music, Watching Movies, Going To Concerts

John Burke
484 Pine Meadow Lane
Apartment 21
Alpena, Michigan 49707

Introduction:
Hello fellow Pen Pal People! Welcome to my Intro!! I am seeking someone to exchange snail mail/email letters with. I have a ton of time as i only work 2 days a week for 2 hours a day. I have many different hobbies such as reading, listening to music, watching movies, going to concerts, and playing video games sometimes. Males and females are welcome to respond. Look forward to pen paling? soon! :)

   
# 77421 - Lavert (43/M) - 2026-02-19 18:20:44
Uganda
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Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading, movies, sports

Introduction:
Hey, I'm excited to make new friends from anywhere around the world. I can handle conversations related to politics, religion, social challenges, sports as long as there is mutual respect between us. I'm 42 years old but am ready to talk to anybody in any age range. Should need a friend to talk to, or even share your frustrations with, am here.

   
# 76501 - Afaz Anwar (44/M) - 2025-12-16 13:33:27
Pakistan
Email:
Languages: English & Other
Hobbies/Interests: Many

Introduction:
I’m reflective, curious, and value depth over noise. I enjoy meaningful conversations, learning from people, and exploring ideas about life, faith, and personal growth. I spend my time reading, thinking, creating, and observing everyday moments. I appreciate simplicity, honesty, and real connections, and I enjoy both thoughtful exchanges and light, easy conversations.

   
# 77270 - Davie Chikayiko Videde (44/M) - 2026-02-09 12:50:02
Malawi
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Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Emailing, Travelling, Reading, Cooking, Soccer

Introduction:
I am a Malawian man aged 44 and divorced. Looking forward to be interacting with people across the world who embrace genuine friendship. The ideal probable friends must be aged 30 years old or above.

   
# 77239 - IndianCuckHubby (44/M) - 2026-02-07 11:32:14
United Kingdom
Email:
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: wife sharing, cuckolding, art, cooking, islam

Introduction:
Looking for Open-Minded Pen-Pals Hello there, I’m a 44‑year‑old married man from the UK, originally of Indian heritage. My wife (38) and I are both working professionals who value openness, understanding, and meaningful conversation. We’re in an open marriage by mutual consent, and she currently has a partner of her choice. I’m looking for genuine pen‑pals with whom I can exchange thoughtful messages and share insights about our open‑minded lifestyle. More broadly, I enjoy engaging in conversations on a wide range of topics — economics, investments, data science, cooking, art, spirituality, and astrology — so there’s always something to talk about! I would particularly love to connect with mature Muslim pen‑pals. My wife's lover is Muslim man and I’ve grown curious to learn more about Islamic art, history, and culture, which I find fascinating. However, anyone who is kind, respectful, and open‑minded is warmly welcome to reach out. If you appreciate sincere, intellectual, and friendly exchanges, I’d be delighted to be your pen‑pal. Let’s share thoughts, perspectives, and experiences that enrich both our worlds. Warm regards, Nilesh Raghu ? Feel free to email me nilesh. j. raghu@ protonmail. com — I look forward to hearing from you!

Updated since 2026-02-07 11:30:41
   
# 76804 - Nuno Miguel (44/M) - 2026-01-07 12:32:02
United Kingdom
Email:
Languages: Portuguese & English
Hobbies/Interests: Languages, Traveling, Meeting people

7 Riverside
Boston
Lincolnshire
PE21 9DX, United Kingdom

Introduction:
My name is Nuno Miguel, portuguese, 44, living and working in the UK as a catering assistant, originally from Portugal, but I have been here since 2000, so, I guess I am accustomed to living here in the UK. I am an outgoing, genuine, expressive individual that is looking for friends from all over the world, and from all walks of life, it really doesn't matter where you from, what you do etc, as long as you are respectful, genuine and a good friend then, you are always welcome in being my friend. When I am off from work, I enjoy spending some time alone and contemplating the things I enjoy the most such as watching the latest movies on amazon, netflix, an avid learner of all kinds of languages, traveling is also a must, which is something i have always done. I have been to Brazil, Iceland, Malta, etc, i just love it when I get in contact with other cultures and learn everything there is to know about those cultures.

   
# 76496 - nuno miguel (44/M) - 2025-12-16 05:50:14
United Kingdom
Email:
Hobbies/Interests: languages, traveling and meeting people

7 riverside
Boston
Lincolnshire
PE21 9DX, United Kingdom

Introduction:
My name is Nuno Miguel, 44, Portuguese, living in the UK. I am here because I would like to meet people from other countries, someone who wants a friend. ANYONE CAN BE MY FRIEND, IT DOESN'T MATTER THE AGE, WHERE YOU FROM, OCCUPATION, ETC. AS LONG AS YOU'RE A GOOD PERSON, THEN I AM MORE THAN HAPPY TO BE YOUR FRIEND. As i am here on earth for a reason, then, let such reason fulfill my existence, my true essence, i want to learn, develop and learn from the experiences i get along in life, that is why, having a friend is the best thing a person can have, because, you learn through others, you learn other cultures, other traditions and much more. I am a person of peace, even though i am not perfect in any way, I prefer to be an imperfect human being and learn more about the mistakes I make along the path of life than being perfect, perfection exists in one's mind, so, it is no point in stating something that cannot be achieved, you may be able to self- actualize, reach your true potential, but, never perfection. Anyhow, i am a very sociable individual, who likes to go out, listen to the latest music on tv or, over the net, travel to other countries and learn other languages, and other traditions. So, friend, if you believe i have some of the qualities you are looking for in a friend, then, do not hesitate in sending a message, and by the way, we are all here for a reason, let us fulfill such reason, by being friends, have a mutual understanding.

   
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