June 2026 to September 2026
Men 40 and more
results: 61 - 80 of 97
Introduction:
The kind of pen pal I'm actually looking for
I've spent enough time here to know there are plenty of
interesting people
around-but interesting alone is not what I'm after.
I'm looking for a connection with substance: someone thoughtful,
honest, and
willing to go beyond small talk and safe answers.
To be clear, this is not romantic. But it is personal. I'm
talking about the
kind of friendship that carries weight-the kind where both people
are
willing to ask better questions, have uncomfortable
conversations, and tell
the truth with care. I'm not looking for a placeholder, a passing
distraction, or a surface-level exchange. I'm looking for
someone who
values depth, emotional intelligence, and the kind of honesty
that actually
makes a difference in a life. If you're the sort of person who
can challenge
and be challenged, who isn't afraid of nuance, and who
understands that
meaningful connection comes with a little discomfort, then maybe
this is
worth answering.
Languages: English & Japanese
Hobbies/Interests: Music, sleeping, relaxing
Introduction:
I am a man close to be deaf, missing a real woman to know and exchange
mails with. I want to know somebody from Sweden, Denmark, Norway ,
Germany or Netherlands. I love to write about romantic, intimancy and
private things too. Are you an openminded woman , you are so welcome to
write to me. You an send me a real picture of yourself to me, so I know you
are in real. No money beggars at all. I am not interested of these scammers.
No chatting from the start, maybe later. I want to write really openminded
private personal mail to you. Maybe we will meet each other in future ? Don’t
be scared to write me and tell me everything about yourself. Thanks and
take care !
Introduction:
I look for penpals from around the world,
no matter if male or female. I write in
English, German and some other
languages. At first, I would like to
exchange emails only - but snail mail
probably later. I have lots of hobbies &
interests, but I might tell you more about
this in my future emails. Sorry, but I do
NOT want penpals from Uganda, The
Phillippines and from South Africa -- and I
also do NOT reply when you're asking me
for money. When you need money, ask
your bank or your grandmother, but not
me. And when you only write "Hello. How
are you?", I will also ignore such silly
emails.
Languages: English, German & Other
Introduction:
I am a 58 yrs old guy in Northern
Germany, with
many interests and hobbies - and I would
like to
correpond with nice, friendly and honest
people
from
all over the world, who wants to learn
something
from other countries, cultures & traditions,
etc. I
am
looking for new pals from Italy, France,
South
Africa,
San Marino, Greece, Spain, Sweden, India,
Pakistan, Dominion of Canada,
Sweden, United States (especially from
Guam,
Puerto
Rico, Hawaii, Wyoming and Montana but
other
states
are also welcome), UK, Korea, Japan,
China, Brazil,
New Zealand or APO/FPO and from
anywhere else
in
the world. But NOT from South Africa,
Uganda or
from The
Phillippines! I love writing long &
interesting
emails
and
maybe snail mail letters later.
Indeed, I prefer emails, but snail mail also
is fine
and
ok with me! ;-) But, I do NOT want to
write
with lazy people, who only writes 1-2 or 3
emails or letters. Don't waste my
time!
And:
NEVER ASK ME FOR MONEY!! When you
need
money,
go to your bank or ask your grandmother -
but not
me! ;-)
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Creating romantic and passionate poetry and short stories.
Introduction:
I am looking for sweet inspiration for my romantic poems and
short stories. I am also looking for a girl who can make a
nice cup of coffee, because mine tastes like cats pee. I also
indulge in photography, psychology, humour, intellectual
endeavours and trying to boil an egg without turning it into a
golf ball. One day I am hoping to have a morning shave without
cutting myself. If I cannot succeed in this then I will grow
a beard.
Languages: English & French
Introduction:
My name is Sergey and I am a male from Russia, 59 years old. I would
like to exchange lettes and postal viewcards
Languages: English & French
Introduction:
My name is Sergey, I am 59 years old. I am looking for penpals to
exchange letters and postal viewcards by snail mail.
Languages: English
Introduction:
Recent widower…looking to begin the next chapter. I am mainly looking for
connection and exploration of how you view the world…your every day life…
what gets you excited?
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: hiking, walking and exploring
Introduction:
I am a 60 year old married professional male who has a
relationship which has gone cold and stale. I am now more like a
caretaker only. I'm not a dog in heat or a pervert, I just want
to feel connected and cared about. (For those who struggle to
understand the English language. This means that this ad is not
about one thing.
How would you like someone...
Who would actually talk to you regularly.
Who would truly listen and respond with more than "whatever" or
"uh huh."
Who would give helpful advice and support.
Who actually cares about you, your feelings, your likes and
dislikes.
Who will treat you as an equal and as a princess.
Who will take the time to listen and get know the real you.
Who will open a door for you and show you true respect.
Who will put a twinkle in your eyes from the excitement of a
text, an email, a call or visit.
Who will inspire dreams, fairy tales and fantasies.
Who can help cure your feelings of being alone, hopelessness and
your heart of despair.
Who will challenge, engage and ease your mind.
Who will inspire you to grow in heart, mind and spirit.
If you can say yes to these things, then maybe you should
contact me. There's no need for any us to be lonely and
unappreciated.
I look forward to your email. Please me real and sincere. Having
someone to share things with would be truly amazing.
I will answer all those who respond in some way, unless it's a
scammer wanting money. Respect is a big thing with me. I give
it and expect to receive it. No one likes those who put ads up
and then won't respond. Also, if you say you want to write, then
have time and make the effort to do so. **Be sincere and speak
from your heart.....** There's no reason to be alone; the
world is just too big to do so. Notice to scammers: I can check
your pictures and once
found out, you're done. Also, one line repsonses will be
deleted. No time for games.)
Languages: English & Other
Hobbies/Interests: Travel, photo
Introduction:
I am a single danish man. I live about about 60 km from
Copenhagen, which are out danish capital. Seeks only females
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading Pets Gardening Social Work and Exchange of Gifts
Introduction:
Would be happy if I could find pen friends through
this site, in my age group
Hobbies/Interests: Hiking, swimming, running, travelling
Introduction:
Hi everyone, looking for a good friend to chat with about
anything and everything. I'm single and yes it gets boring
sometimes
Languages: English, French & German
Hobbies/Interests: traveling, swimming
Introduction:
"Hi! I am Tim Ashford I am 61 years old, living in Honolulu, Hawaii,
USA. I joined to find a nice penpal to share daily life stories and
slow down from social media. I love traveling, site seeing, and
swiming, and trying new recipes. I prefer [email / snail mail]. Send
me a message if you want to chat!"
Languages: English
Introduction:
Hi, Looking for a lady to chat with. Just bored. No subject off limits. You
can be married, I am divorced. Nice guy just wanting to chat
Languages: English
Introduction:
I'm Larry in Canada. I'm looking for a lady any age for
stimulating conversations. I'm honest, open minded and
non judgmental. I'd like to be
the guy you can confide in when
no one wants to listen. I know when to be funny and I also
know when to be serious. Music is a big part of my life. All
kinds of music. From The Beatles to Bananarama. From Sinatra
to Steely Dan. Classic rock... I also like hockey, especially
the Vancouver Canucks. I'm looking forward to chatting with
you.
Languages: English & Other
Hobbies/Interests: Many
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
Hello. I am a Black American male aged 63 and i wish to become
friends with many quality foreign people with shared interests
and want to cultivate a friendship and trade information and
conversations via here... Even Snailmail[Postal Mail], to which if
they are interested in writing via this way... I will give out my
personal home address for you to write to and i will respond
back. I hope to find some very good friends... Or at least some
that will trade ideas and observations... Please be honest and
leave your contact and name and NO "Cloak And Dagger" games or
offers... I look forward here... Or postal mail to exchange
with.... So Thank You all for those
that want friendship with no strings attached or attitudes and
such. I hope to see you guys soon!
Introduction:
Mature and active single male looking for female for
friendship. Ive lots of hobbies and interests, Im a fun and
happy person, I enjoy the outdoors, travel, resteraunts,
cinema, all the usual normal things in life, but it would be
good to have a friend to share with.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: football, table tennies, classical music, country side walking
Introduction:
William ampim is my name. from Ghana. here to make friends. Most
especially looking for a matured woman s
Languages: English
Introduction:
Hi…I’m a Brit now living in LAs Vegas …Im looking for a lady who can string a
sentence together, has a good sense of humor and can put up with my
nonsense on a daily basis…this is the 4th time I’ve tried this with no success
so that should tell you how insanely stupid I am .. lol …. Im also very savvy
and if you send me a picture of a beautiful model and say it’s you the first
thing I do is do a reverse search so let’s not waste each other’s time…oh
well let’s see what happens…lol
Languages: English & German
Introduction:
I'm a nice person



