August 2026 to November 2026
Men 40 and more
results: 41 - 60 of 108
Languages: English & French
Hobbies/Interests: Psychology, Tarot, literature, arts
Introduction:
Hello,
I'm Xavier, a 52-year-old Frenchman. Literature, philosophy,
psychology, and esotericism are faithful companions: they
nourish my reflection and my imagination. But there are
moments when books are not enough, and when I feel truly
lonely.
I'm looking for a woman for an emotional closeness through
writing. An ongoing, sincere correspondence, letters or
messages in which we gradually reveal ourselves to each other,
in which we share our thoughts, our doubts, our dreams, and
our disillusionments.
I would like a true, tender, and deep connection, built word
after word.
If you enjoy writing, reading, reflecting, and if the idea of
an intimate and respectful exchange speaks to you, I would be
happy to read you.
Looking forward to a first page together.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: music, RPGs, email, websites
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
Hello, my name is Frank. I am a male born in 1973, and live in Pittsburgh
Pennsylvania in the north eastern United States. I am 6' (188cm) and
working on my weight, but not very successfully. Due to a couple of
disabilities, I am unemployed, and therefore will not be giving any money
out. I would consider myself honest, trustworthy, and always look out for the
better interests of others even when it's not in my best interests. As for
interests, I have a number of websites that I own and manage. If you are
curious, you can ask for them. Nothing commercial, but just personal
ramblings of a person that some will say I am not completely there. As for
communications, I prefer email, but will also do postal mail if it is in the
United States. I always have music playing, except when I am watching TV
which is not common. As for music, I lean to alternative and rock. Some of
the groups I like will include Ashes to New, Evanescence, Lacuna Coil, Linkin
Park, Paramore, Semblant, The Warning and Within Temptation to name a
few. I do have a Spotify Playlist, so if you are curious, just ask. I am atheist,
heterosexual, single (not looking for any long distance relationship) and
unemployed. If you are curious about me, feel free to write. I am pretty much
and option book, and will answer most questions. Thank you for taking the
time in reading my ad. If you decide to write, provide more than just a few
sentences. Actually take the time to write, otherwise - your few sentenced
email will not get replied too. Simply put, I will not reply to very short emails.
I will also not do IM services like WhatsApp. I have found them to be a waste
of time. Last, I will reply from a different email address. Just keep that in
mind when I reply.
Hobbies/Interests: Fishing, Farm equipment. Construction Euipment
Introduction:
My name is Kevin, I am 53 years old, I am a God-Fearing Christian
man. I love to go fishing, going for nice drives, taking nice walks,
going shopping, dining out, and relaxing at home, listening to my
music and watching my favourite movies and shows. I love to read
the bible
Languages: English
Introduction:
Hi there. I'm Matt, a 53yo guy in the south of England. I've
just stumbled across this site and thought I'd join up to see
what's what. I'm happy to chat to pretty much anybody unless
they plan to extract money or similar from me! I've been
online for over 30 years, so can sniff out a fake or a scammer
pretty quickly! Interests wise, I'm a big music fan and go to
quite a few gigs and festivals each year. I enjoy cooking, but
I'm more of a recipe-follower than an instinctive chef. I've
also become a bit of a gym-bunny over the last 18 months or
so, losing around 20kg (that's 44lbs for our colonial
cousins!) and toning up all over. On top of that, I like to do
long distance hikes, recently completing a 100km (62-mile)
hike in just under 28hrs - that one hurt! So, drop me a line
if you fancy a chat sometime!
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Outdoors, Games, Movies, Music, Animals, Science, Space, History
Introduction:
Hello, my name is Mike, 53 and from Rapid City, SD. I miss
having a friend and someone to keep in touch by chat, email
and text. I'm a very open and easy going kind of guy, friendly
and very understanding. I have a great heart and I always look
at things in a positive way. I smile often and I try to be
happy. It would be nice to find someone who I can keep in
touch with often and get to know. Preferably from the USA. I
always find the time to reply back so feel free to say hi. I
am also very talkative, there will never be a problem with me
not saying much. I always have something on my mind. I do have
a great sense of humor and making someone smile to laugh
really brings me great joy. I can be silly at times but really
I enjoy life to the fullest.
Languages: German, English & French
Hobbies/Interests: Writing/reading, traveling, sports, culinary arts and more
Introduction:
Good - you are reading these lines, hope you will continue.
Why should you write to me? I am 53 years old, Swiss,
working in IT-related consulting (yeah... boring) and
currently live somewhere in Asia. So, these are the facts. I
might sound serious and strict (that is what I am told quite
often) but believe me, I am not... young at heart, goofy,
love to laugh, easy going - these are other aspects that
describe me. I have a lot of interests... for instance, I
love to learn and study (not necessarily STEM-topics), know
a lot about things nobody actually cares about, love to
write and read, exploring other countries and cultures, am
fairly sporty (used to compete on a semi-professional level,
didn't make it pro - lack of talent? Laziness? Shift of
priorities?) and I love culinary arts. I am 6 ft tall,
normal built, with a mix of grey and black hair. If you are
still reading and feel like writing, go ahead (I will reply,
no matter what), if you have any questions, ask.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: many of them
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
over the years I have seen many things and learned many more
things with the way things were set where as one person stated
that I served my country and then some where as I am working
on a list as the term paper is done by the end of the month
where then the other project has a few more months to do where
as I have risen higher then what was a curse at me as they
failed into the end of their plans
Hobbies/Interests: mus. ic next
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
with that of the times being what they are in life for me as
of aug5 26 there are things I am looking for like a penpal as
a friend where the new way is beyond me anymore where as there
is that special woman out there was not suppose live to be
this old 55 where as I want the woman in mind to hold onto my
patch where I was a fireman in the navy and some other things
I have where as writing projects and other plans like reset
the business back to a powerhouse again
Languages: English
Address: HIDDEN
Introduction:
Hello! My name is Isaac Kingsford Bansah from Ghana, West Africa.
I am a committed Christian who loves Jesus Christ and values
meaningful friendships rooted in faith, love, and encouragement.
I am a teacher and educationist, and I believe strongly in
sharing not only knowledge but also Christian values. The Bible
is my guide, and I am inspired by Christ’s call to share the
Gospel and encourage one another in faith (Matthew 28:19–20).
I am here to connect with Christian friends and pen pals from
around the world—people who enjoy discussing the Bible, sharing
testimonies, praying together, and growing spiritually. I am also
open to friendly conversations with anyone interested in
Christianity or seeking a deeper purpose in life.
I enjoy reading the Bible, listening to sermons, learning about
different cultures, and having uplifting conversations. I value
respect, honesty, kindness, and faith-centered friendships.
If you love Jesus, want to grow in your faith, or are simply open
to Christian fellowship and encouragement, I would be happy to
connect with you.
God bless you, and I look forward to hearing from you.
Hobbies/Interests: anything fun
Introduction:
its leo, just curious how writing a stranger will go
Languages: English & German
Introduction:
I’m someone who believes that trust and friendship are the
foundations of any lasting relationship. I appreciate people who are
honest, caring, open-minded, and comfortable being themselves. I’m
here to meet genuine people, build good friendships, exchange
experiences, and hopefully discover a special connection that grows
naturally with time.
Introduction:
Just a regular guy looking to connect with a genuine woman for
conversation, laughter, companionship, and seeing where things go
naturally. Essentially my best friend.
Life’s been a little isolating lately, and I’ve realized I miss
having someone to talk to, share thoughts with, joke around with,
and genuinely get to know. I’m not looking for perfection or a
fantasy — just honesty, kindness, chemistry, and a real
connection.
A little about me: I’m laid back, thoughtful, emotionally aware,
and probably funnier than I look at first. I enjoy good
conversations, quiet nights, humor, music, dogs, and people who
can be real instead of pretending to have life perfectly figured
out.
If you’re someone who values sincerity, warmth, and connection
too, feel free to say hello and put your favorite color in the
subj line so I know you're real.
Languages: English
Introduction:
Yes! No. Maybe? 56-year-old male looking for an open-minded
personality to help pass the time. Wanting friendship
primarily, more if life takes us that way. I don't judge so
please don't judge me, we all have pasts, good and bad, I just
want to move forward onto the better things life offers us.
Feel free to ask me anything, no limits, I have nothing to
lose and everything to gain
Take a chance and let's see what happens. for "Another Part
Of Me" let's go "Back To The '80s" and get "Behind The Wheel"
in our "Brand New Cadillac" where I can ask "Can I Play With
Madness" because I "Can't Get Laid". you don't have to be
"Cinderella Undercover", A "Country Girl Gone Wild" or
"Daddy's Falling Angel" but "Dammit Janet" don't be afraid to
wear your "Fishnet Stockings" and ask "What's Your Fantasy"
"Under The Milky Way" and leaving me "Speechless" "D' You Know
What I Mean? So is "Anybody Listening?"
Introduction:
Hi my name is Mike I live in the Fresno California area and
looking to have a pen pal in the same area or adjacent area I
am 56 and single and like to chat. Let's start communicating
and share some laughs and memories.
Introduction:
Hello. Irish chap in my 50's here. Married? Yes. Long story?
Yes. Children? Yes, 25 & 21. Why this? Seeking a connection.
What type? No idea but open-minded to all possibilities. Any
topic I won't engage with i. e., s. e. x, religion or politics
for example? No. I want to connect with a whole person, not a
partial one. Differences of opinions? Of course. Otherwise I
would just be talking at myself in a mirror. Sense of humour?
Most definitely. Judgement? None. Support? Happy to. Listener?
I'm a good one. Want advice? Happy to help. Religious? No.
Does my account need funds deposited in it? No thanks. Email
or post? Email please. Interested, even a smidgen? Drop me an
email. To whomever might be reading this, I hope you are
having a decent day of it.
Languages: English & Spanish
Introduction:
I am in Medford Oregon area for the fire season.
I am looking for a friend, preferably a female
to show me around while on R&R. I also would
love to receive letters while out on a fire
Introduction:
Thanks so much for stopping by, and I hope
that you find what you're seeking on this site. I'm an
offshore medic, currently working
out of Dutch and Polish ports. My first language is English,
though I'm learning Dutch. When I'm on land, I enjoy outdoor
activities such as cycling and hillwalking. I'm originally
from London, and went to university in Newcastle and
Edinburgh. Since 2007 I've worked in Australasia, the Far
East, the Middle East, Africa, South America, Europe and above
the Arctic Circle. Genuine penpallers: I look forward to
hearing from you, and learning all about you. NO ROMANCE OR
OTHER SCAMMERS
Languages: English, French & Dutch
Hobbies/Interests: travel, nature/countryside/environment/outdoors and history.
Introduction:
Thanks for stopping by. I am Michael, an offshore medic,
currently working in the North Sea, between Holland England. I
have been doing this job since 2007, and have worked across
Asia, Africa, South America and Europe. I am originally from
London, and went to university in Newcastle upon Tyne and
Edinburgh. My interests include travel,
nature/countryside/environment/outdoors
and history. I would love to hear from you if you share any of
my interests, but no scammers, and no site users seeking money
or a relationship please.
Introduction:
Hi, I'm Michael, originally from London, went to University in
Newcastle upon Tyne and Edinburgh, and have worked in
Australasia, the Far East, the Middle East, Africa, South America
and North of the Arctic Circle. I'm now working as an offshore
medic out of the port of IJmuiden in the Netherlands. I'd
love to hear from you particularly if you enjoy
travel, exploration, history and natural history, nature,
countryside and environment. No relationship or money
seekers and no scammers please.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading, Movies, Animated TV, Video Games
Introduction:
I received a recommendation to come here. I'll be honest - a lot that's here looks like bots or phishing attempts. I don't think that will upset anyone who is NOT a bot or a phisher because if you're smart enough to be seeking written correspondence, it seems likely you'd be a good enough judge of character to avoid the people who ask you to reach out to their e-mail or WhatsApp - provided in the ad. Anyway, if you've gotten this far, hello! Phinneous is my video game name and in no way related to anyone named "Ferb". I am a 57 year old dude who lives alone in Baltimore. Today, after my regular Sunday "Movie Club" movie at one of my local arthouse theaters, my former wife joined me for another feature. We had a good time. Even though we're no longer together, we remain on great terms and do see an occasional movie together. We were chatting about it later (on Discord, text chat) when I realized that THIS [gesturing to the chatting we were doing in that moment] is what I miss. Being able to connect on interests with someone. I missed having someone not named [wife's name] to share stories with. I don't want to rely on my former wife for this. I'm not looking for romance, but I generally DO prefer speaking with women. I would say "any age" but 35 - 65 seems most appropriate. I'm not necessarily excluding men, especially with similar interests. I like movies, if you couldn't tell already. Mostly films made in my lifetime including newer ones. It's not a preference for Arthouse - I was just at that type of theater TODAY. I also enjoy reading. I read a lot of Fantasy - the last book I read was Onyx Storm, which was great just like the previous two. Before that it was Moonflower Murders, the second in a series by Anthony Horowitz. I'm mostly adult fiction, with some popular young adult stuff (Hunger Games for example) thrown in. I live and work in the city. I'm very in touch with current events, though I try not to talk about it. I should say I'm progressive. Send an introduction & share a little if you deem me worthy.



